Monday, December 8, 2008

What the hell is wrong with sex?


i'm annoyed.

most of the public play spaces i've been to in my time are pretty cool. great equipment, nice people, big spread of snacks for the sugar-dropees. but no sex. even in the places where it's not a specific rule, it seems somewhat uncouth to fuck there.

"we're not swingers." "we wanted to differentiate from the swingers." "we do bdsm. not fuck strangers." as if there was something horribly wrong with swinging. or fucking strangers for that matter.

here's the deal. while i don't have a lot of experience swinging, it's not from lack of trying. i'm a heartfelt polyamorous owned cunt, and i like sex. in private. in public. with pain. with torture. with multiple partners, preferably in the same night, with a generous dose of humiliation.

i am so sick of people acting as if sex is something that does not belong in bdsm. jeebus - we do this because we're turned on, right?

what's a girl gotta do to find a fuck-friendly kink fest?

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Fuck-friendly kink fests are actually quite rare and usually require you to attend private invite only parties at people's houses.

I agree that there is nothing wrong with swinging or fucking strangers, but most BDSM parties aren't set up to explore sex, but sexually based play things. I know you already know this ;P

So, I can't help you, but I do know that they would be mighty fun!