where does angry fit into play? don't deny it - we all get angry. it's at varying levels - from slightly annoyed to rage. in any relationship, even D/s ones, people get angry at each other; it's just a matter of where, or if, it fits into your play.
most dominants i know will say "i never hit out of anger." i suppose it's a sort of defense mechanism, in that if you *do* let yourself get angry, and hurt someone while in that state of mind, it may be more difficult to control yourself. and control is what it's all about. i have a hard time thinking about submitting to someone, giving up control, when they are unable to control *themselves*.
i think it's possible to be angry, and hurt someone using that very powerful emotion so close to passion and power, and stay in control. i didn't say it was safe. i said it was possible.
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