i once heard a story about a submissive, a slave, who claimed they had "no limits" (i may have talked about this before. oh well.) when questioned about it, she repeatedly responded that her Master had the right to do anything, including taking her life.
Fine, said her questioner. What if you Master told you there would be no more play. No more sadomasochistic activities. No domination. No rope. Plain old vanilla sex, if that.
A very long pause, and she finally agreed that *that* was indeed a limit.
What if your partner, your Master, your Mistress, your Dominant, turned the tables on you, and gave you only activities that did not please you? *All* the time? Would you stay?
I think it's bullshit to imagine that we are somehow creatures without personal interest, even when we are in our most submissive postures. Dominants/Tops, I suppose, have to weigh their own personal needs and pleasures against what is "good" for their submissive. Another reason I know I'm not a dominant - I'm way too selfish for that.
Yes, I said selfish. I'm probably going to get called on the carpet for this, somewhere along the way, but I'll always claim that being a submissive is *way* more selfish than being dominant.
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