2. it's not so easy to say it in the first place, so i'd better think carefully first. leading to...
3. think before i speak. loose lips sink - subs.
4. labels suck, and i don't care what you think i am (or not). it only matters what he thinks, and what i think. rest of y'all can eat my dust, i'm not waiting for you to catch up.
5. the things i don't want to do are what i consider edge play for me. they may be tiny things to anyone else, but that's where he pushes my so-called limits.
6. i will not go backwards.
7.pain does not make me wet. submitting does.
8. love came secondarily, not primarily, and that's ok. love as an afterthought isn't such a bad thing.
9. love is not a guarantee or a promise. it just - is.
10. i'm stronger than anyone realizes. except him, maybe. he realizes it. now i realize it.
3 comments:
Great list!!!!
i think love is best when it comes unexpectedly.
...and no one ever got anywhere going backwards...
"pain does not get me wet. submitting does.."
true that..i have been twisting my brain around that of late..doesn't matter after all, does it?
Thanks for sharing!
~nik
nods as each item is read....
ask any woman to jot a list of 10 things they know about themselves and i wonder if many could do it, let alone as thoughtfully as you have done here. You've put into practice items 1, 2 and 3 in the sharing of items 4 through 10. :)
Thank you for sharing this great food for thought.
-crys
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